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Post  Khairi KEW070016 on Wed 20 Jan 2010, 12:33 pm

A man asserted about being robbed to delay his wedding day

Marriage are the thing that every peoples dream about. As people walk into an adult, the tendency to have a couple practically risen among them self. Not to be denying that all human had been given a heart, which all the people poses, to have a partner for their lifespan. They are amazing gift from the Creator. Basically, engagement come first before marriage, if it a good case. Therefore, a wise planning for a marriage must be done during this period. Many sectors must be taken into considerations such as money planning, wedding ceremony, invitations, and so on. The bride must prepare them self physically and mentally to faces a new world of adulthood as a new family member. They must have a full responsibility to take care of their family. Of course it has nothing to do with their neighborhoods, if any.

This case is about the man who cheated about being robbed to delay his wedding ceremony. His future father-in-law says that he want to make the ceremony sooner (next month) than the original planned in July (which is 4 month away). For this case, I can say that the man which should be married in July depress about the change of the date mention by his future father-in-law. From what of him doing, clearly he cannot confront his partner’s parents directly to tell about his own problems. By what factors that had blocked him to discuss it? I mean, he can actually tells his fiancee about the problems he facing when their wedding ceremony got sooner than he planned.

Conversations are the best way to get his problems solve rationally. If he knows to think further, then he would not go this kind of way. There are many roads to be taken instead of cheating. He may not think about the other people’s heart especially his very own lovely fiancee! Of course, before marrying someone, he need to do a lot of preparations thought it will be a burden to him and surely other peoples thinking of what he doing is totally wrong. Thus, it would leave a “scars” to those people around him. I wonder what happens next but the lessons here is to think rationally before doing something. Many people would like to do in a simple manner. Just because it’s simple, we cannot take them lightly.

Rational thinking refers to logical or reasoning being involved in the thought process. It refers to providing reasons or rational behind thoughts or ideas. It adds an element of calculation and planning to a steam of thoughts rather then basing them on emotion or personal opinion. It is a kind of objective process of thinking and an analytic approach to any problem. Rational thinking is based on reasons or facts and is hence much more calculating and realistic. All people are capable of thinking rationally, but people will tend to cloud this ability because of emotions or prejudices. A detective as an example, the concept of rational thinking will be taken into priority. The logic is always based on facts rather than preconceived notions.

The conclusion is we must think rationally, effectively, and make a wise decisions based on the best analysis made. When we meet these elements, it means that we have made the best option and ready to take actions. We will be ready for that because we can predicts what happens if we taking that actions or not. So that we can use precautions to any problems we face. Practically, rational and critical thinking made people succeeds in their plans.




References:
1. http://www.bharian.com.my/Current_News/BH/Tuesday/BeritaUtama/20100118235233/Article/index_html
2. http://www.ascd.org/publications/books/101017/chapters/Rational_Thinking_as_a_Process.aspx
3. http://www.blurtit.com/q617632.html

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Post  Leong Jia Wei KEW080013 on Thu 21 Jan 2010, 1:32 pm

It's amazing what people will resort to when they're faced with tough choices...
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Post  Cheah Meng Kit KEW080006 on Thu 21 Jan 2010, 3:09 pm

Thinking rationally and critically is really very important.
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Post  Khairi KEW070016 on Fri 22 Jan 2010, 9:03 pm

yeah...and so when someone being impatient, they couldn't thinking clearly.. and the results may effected by inappropriate decisions.

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Post  Chia Li - Yan KEW080007 on Sun 24 Jan 2010, 2:06 am

it's best to share and be honest than to keep it inside
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Post  Khairi KEW070016 on Mon 25 Jan 2010, 3:41 pm

Chia Li - Yan KEW080007 wrote:it's best to share and be honest than to keep it inside

that's the best..

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Post  Cheah Meng Kit KEW080006 on Tue 02 Feb 2010, 9:26 am

Chia Li - Yan KEW080007 wrote:it's best to share and be honest than to keep it inside


But not many people can do that...
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